Thirteenth Blog Post

When I was a senior in high school, I had this small group of friends/sisters that I would always hang out with. One out of the three girls in the group was in a relationship. We usually are happy for each other when one gets into a relationship with someone, but the relationship my sister was in wasn't healthy at all. Ever since they started to hang close with each other, it seemed like I hardly was able to see or hang out with my sister anymore. It's like her relationship just took her away from me. She started getting distant and starting lying about everything. She made up stories about her mom and other personal things. Every time I tried to talk to her about it, she would blow me off or lie in front of her "girlfriend". So then all three of us had a meeting and she thought it was okay to bring her girlfriend to the meeting. The meeting wasn't for her girlfriend so I was confused as to why she thought that was okay. After that meeting, I was sad and disappointed because she didn't care for anything but herself at the time. So we ended up calling her mom to ask if any of the lies my friend said was true or not. Her mom said it wasn't true so I was shocked by why she lied about all of that. She once told us not to go to her mom about her relationship because her mom didn't approve. But I crossed that border and had to find some way she could get some help. Her girlfriend was not a good person when it came to decision making a all. I wasn't even mad that I did it because I was trying to be a good friend. Till this day she chooses her relationship over a long-lasting friendship. My definition of border was something that divided/separated you from something. I crossed that border when I went to her mom about everything, but I'm happy I did it.

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